My partner and I used to split everything down the middle and both work equal hours, but since I started making significantly more money, we've stopped talking about money entirely and I think we're both resentful in different ways. Neither of us knows how to renegotiate what 'fair' means when the old system doesn't work anymore.
More people experience this than they realize.
The fundamental agreement about who provides what has shifted beneath you, but you're both pretending the old rules still apply.
“Where Are You with Hunting and gathering — the primal relationship?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.