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Scenario

When self-optimization culture kills spontaneity in relationships

My partner and I used to surprise each other and be spontaneous, but now we're so focused on our individual self-care routines and optimization that we've stopped being curious about each other and I feel like we're becoming parallel lives instead of an intertwined one.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The modern emphasis on individual wellness has inadvertently created a barrier to the messy, unplanned moments where relational joy emerges.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The disappearance of adult play?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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