My partner thinks I've become boring and predictable since we had kids, and they're probably right, but their version of spontaneity now feels selfish and inconsiderate of everything I'm juggling. We're both feeling trapped - they feel like I've killed all our fun, I feel like they don't understand what it takes to keep our life running - and we can't figure out what spontaneity even means for parents.
More people experience this than they realize.
You're operating from completely different definitions of what responsible spontaneity looks like with children in the picture.
“Where Are You with Spontaneity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.