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Scenario

When couples disagree about self-deprecating humor in social settings

My partner thinks my constant self-deprecating jokes at parties are embarrassing and wants me to stop, but that's literally how I've always handled social situations and without it I feel like I have nothing to say. We keep fighting about it afterwards instead of enjoying ourselves.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Different comfort levels with public vulnerability create a clash between authentic self-expression and partnership solidarity.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-deprecating humor?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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