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Scenario

When self-deprecating humor becomes a wall between partners

My partner's self-deprecating humor has gotten so constant and dark that I've stopped laughing and started worrying, but when I try to address it seriously they just make more jokes about being a mess. We're stuck in this loop where I can't reach them.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Humor meant to create connection instead becomes a barrier to intimacy when it's used to deflect genuine concern.

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Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-deprecating humor?”

Peri

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