Periagoge
Scenario

When couples drift away from meaningful shared rituals

My spouse and I have this ritual where we sit on our porch every evening and point out beautiful things that are dying or changing - the last light, wilting flowers, our neighbor's old dog moving slowly - and find something funny about our own attachment to these moments. But lately we keep talking over each other or checking our phones and I can feel us losing this quiet practice that used to center us both.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Even the most gentle practices require presence, and presence is the first thing to disappear when connection frays.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

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Peri

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