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Scenario

When couples optimize the fun out of shared activities

My spouse and I used to cook together and make it this fun, messy experience with music and wine, but now we meal prep efficiently on Sundays and I realize we've optimized all the joy out of something that used to connect us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The pursuit of efficiency has systematically eliminated the inefficient moments where intimacy and play naturally flourished.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The disappearance of adult play?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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