My spouse and I used to dance salsa together every weekend just because we loved moving together, but since we started competing, every dance feels like practice and we critique each other's steps instead of just getting lost in the music.
More people experience this than they realize.
Competition can transform intimate play into transactional performance between partners.
“Where Are You with The amateur — one who does it for love?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.