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Scenario

When spouses from different humor cultures clash over family dynamics

My spouse thinks my family's style of roasting each other is toxic and aggressive, but I think their family's politeness is fake and emotionally distant, and we can't figure out whose definition of 'loving humor' to use with our kids. Every family gathering becomes this weird performance where we're both trying to prove our way is healthier.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The collision of different satirical traditions reveals that there is no neutral ground in humor—every joke carries the values of its culture.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Irony and satire?”

Peri

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