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When parent-child play therapy struggles with ingrained dynamics

My teenage daughter and I started doing play therapy together after years of constant conflict, but she keeps testing whether I'm going to snap back into 'parent mode' during our sessions and I keep catching myself wanting to correct her or teach her something. We both want this to work but we don't know how to drop our usual roles with each other.

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A parent and child are trying to access a different way of relating through play but their established patterns of authority and resistance keep interfering with genuine connection.

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