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When parents disagree about how much risk their teenager should be allowed to take

My teenage daughter wants to take a gap year to travel alone through South America and I'm terrified, but my spouse thinks I'm being overprotective and that we should support her adventurous spirit. We're completely at odds about what counts as reasonable risk versus dangerous naivety, and our daughter is caught in the middle of our philosophical differences about how much we should let her risk for the sake of growth.

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Parental disputes about appropriate risk exposure for children often reveal deeper conflicts about the relationship between safety and growth.

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