My teenage kids constantly complain that our family never does anything fun or unexpected anymore, but every time I suggest something spontaneous they want to know all the details first or they already have plans or they act like it's this huge inconvenience. I feel like I'm failing at creating the kind of family culture I want but I also don't know how to compete with their phones and their friends for spontaneous moments.
More people experience this than they realize.
Everyone wants spontaneity in theory, but the competing rhythms of different generations make it nearly impossible to achieve in practice.
“Where Are You with Spontaneity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.