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Scenario

When couples lose their flow state together

My wife and I used to completely lose track of time working on projects together — building furniture, cooking elaborate meals, planning trips — but now everything feels like a chore we're checking off and we both feel like we're going through the motions even when we try to do 'fun' things.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The shared experience of effortless engagement has been replaced by performative attempts at connection.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Flow and play — Csikszentmihalyi's insight?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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