My wife and I used to dance in the kitchen while cooking dinner and now we move around each other like polite choreography, each doing our assigned tasks efficiently. We've optimized the joy right out of our daily routines and I don't know how to suggest we dance again without it feeling forced.
More people experience this than they realize.
Efficiency and joy are often at odds, yet both feel necessary for a functioning partnership.
“Where Are You with Childhood and the right to play?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.