Our family has gotten into this pattern where any spontaneous suggestion gets immediately shot down by whoever's having the worst day, so we've all just stopped suggesting things. Everyone's walking on eggshells and we've created this environment where spontaneity feels risky instead of joyful, and I don't know how to break this cycle without making someone feel attacked.
More people experience this than they realize.
You've accidentally created a family culture where suggesting spontaneous activities feels emotionally dangerous.
“Where Are You with Spontaneity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.