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Scenario

When friend groups struggle with jokes that have become bullying

Our friend group has this running joke that's been going for years but it's become mean-spirited and always targets the same person, and we all keep participating because stopping would acknowledge how cruel it's gotten. The person being targeted still laughs along but their laugh sounds different now and we're all pretending not to notice.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A shared comedic tradition has morphed into something harmful, but the group's investment in maintaining their dynamic prevents them from confronting what the humor has become.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Jokes and their structure?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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