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Scenario

When friend groups over-optimize their shared traditions

Our friend group started a monthly tradition of trying new restaurants but now we overthink every choice and research reviews for hours instead of just picking somewhere and seeing what happens. We turned our spontaneous food adventures into a committee meeting and sucked all the surprise out of it.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A group has confused planning with caring and replaced the magic of discovery with the anxiety of perfect choices.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with The joyful life — Nasreddin's synthesis?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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