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Scenario

How to reconnect with friends when everyone's too busy for depth

Our friend group used to have these amazing late-night hangs where we'd talk about everything and stay up until sunrise, but now everyone has kids and jobs and we only meet for dinner parties that end at 10pm with polite conversation. I wonder if we can ever get back to that raw, unguarded energy we had in the darkness together.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A friend group has lost access to the vulnerable, unstructured time that once allowed for real connection and is struggling to find intimacy within new constraints.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Night — the relationship with darkness?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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