Our friend group used to plan these elaborate weekend trips and game nights but now everyone just wants to 'hang out' which means sitting around someone's living room scrolling our phones and calling it social time. I miss when we used to actually do things together but whenever I suggest activities everyone acts like I'm being high-maintenance.
More people experience this than they realize.
The group has drifted from intentional recreation toward default leisure, and suggesting change feels like breaking an unspoken agreement about low effort.
“Where Are You with Rest vs. leisure vs. recreation?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.