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Scenario

Why joking about being single can sabotage others' efforts to help

I make fun of being single but my married friends stopped setting me up with people and I wonder if I convinced them I don't actually want to date.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Your defensive humor has inadvertently communicated contentment when you actually desire change.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-deprecating humor?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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