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Scenario

When self-deprecating humor becomes self-harm

I make self-deprecating jokes constantly and my therapist says it's a defense mechanism but I don't know how else to be likeable.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The habit of diminishing oneself for others' comfort reveals a deep uncertainty about inherent worth.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Wit and wordplay?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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