I realized I haven't bought myself flowers or done anything kind for myself in months because it feels selfish when others have so little
More people experience this than they realize.
You have confused self-neglect with virtue, believing that your joy competes with others' wellbeing.
“Where Are You with The joyful life — Nasreddin's synthesis?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.