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Scenario

Why self-deprecating dating profiles attract the wrong people

My dating app bio is just a series of self-roasts and I wonder if that's why I only attract people who seem to enjoy putting me down.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're advertising your willingness to accept poor treatment by demonstrating it yourself.

Your guide for this
Nas
Nas works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Self-deprecating humor?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.