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Scenario

When families disagree about the timeline of grief

My adult children want to have a family meeting about my late wife's belongings and how to handle her memory, but I'm not ready to make those decisions and they're frustrated with me for avoiding it, and I can feel us all getting stuck between honoring her and moving forward.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Family members are discovering that shared loss doesn't create shared readiness to process that loss, leaving them caught between individual needs and collective healing.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

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