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Scenario

When family members process similar life transitions together but get stuck in shared resentment

My adult daughter and I both went through divorces in the same year and we've been leaning on each other heavily, but I'm starting to worry that we're enabling each other's bitterness instead of actually healing and moving forward.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Mutual support has become mutual reinforcement of victim narratives, preventing both people from taking responsibility for their own healing.

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Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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