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When family check-ins become performance rather than connection

My adult siblings and I meet monthly to check in with each other but lately it feels more like a competition about who's handling life better rather than actual support. We all show up with our best face on and leave feeling more isolated than before.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Well-intentioned regular contact has devolved into comparative display, leaving everyone more disconnected despite increased interaction.

Ideas that help explain it
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