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Scenario

When siblings disagree on elderly parent care approaches

My brother and I are both trying to care for our aging father but we have completely different ideas about what he needs and we keep undermining each other's efforts. I think he needs more independence and my brother thinks he needs more protection and meanwhile Dad is getting frustrated with both of us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are caught between their own fears about loss and their genuine desire to serve, creating competing forms of love that fragment rather than support.

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