My brother and I are both trying to have better relationships with our dad, but when we talk to each other we end up reinforcing old grievances and cynical expectations. We're learning from each other that nothing will change, even though we both actually want to try something different.
More people experience this than they realize.
Family members attempting individual growth find their shared stories and mutual observations perpetuating the very dynamics they want to escape.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.