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Scenario

When family members grieve differently and keep hurting each other

My dad and I are both dealing with grief after my mom died but we grieve completely differently and every time we try to talk about her or make decisions about her things, we end up hurting each other. I retreat into myself and he wants to process everything out loud and neither of us knows how to bridge that gap without losing what we each need.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their authentic ways of processing loss are mutually incompatible, creating secondary trauma in their shared healing.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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