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Scenario

When family members trying to change the same habit end up enabling each other instead

My dad and I are both trying to quit drinking and we keep enabling each other's relapses by making excuses together instead of holding each other accountable. We wanted to do this together for support but I think we're actually making it harder for each other to change.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Shared struggle is becoming shared permission to avoid the difficulty of actual change.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

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