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When divorced parents can't break old patterns despite individual growth

My ex-wife and I are trying to co-parent mindfully after a bitter divorce and we've both done a lot of individual healing work but when we're together we still trigger each other's worst behaviors in front of our kids.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Individual healing doesn't automatically translate to relational healing, especially when old triggers are embedded in shared context.

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