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Scenario

When divorced parents can't break old patterns despite individual growth

My ex-wife and I are trying to co-parent mindfully after a bitter divorce and we've both done a lot of individual healing work but when we're together we still trigger each other's worst behaviors in front of our kids.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Individual healing doesn't automatically translate to relational healing, especially when old triggers are embedded in shared context.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Beliefs — how they form and how they change?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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