My mom and I are both dealing with grief from dad's death but we grieve so differently — she wants to talk constantly and I need silence — and we keep hurting each other when we're trying to help. Every conversation becomes about who's grieving 'right' and I can see us growing apart when we need each other most.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people sharing the same loss are discovering that their different grief processes are creating additional wounds between them.
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