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Scenario

When family members grieve differently and hurt each other while trying to help

My mom and I are both trying to process our grief over losing dad, but we grieve completely differently and I think we keep accidentally hurting each other when we're just trying to help. She wants to talk about memories constantly and I need more space to feel things quietly, but then she thinks I'm shutting her out.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are discovering that their natural healing rhythms are incompatible and creating secondary wounds in their most important relationship.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Peri

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