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Scenario

When adult siblings must coordinate elderly parent care despite unresolved family dynamics

My mom is aging and my brother and I are trying to figure out care decisions but we have completely different relationships with her and different financial situations and every conversation about what's best for her becomes a fight about our childhood. We can't seem to separate past hurt from present responsibility.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Old family patterns resurface with new intensity when adult children must collaborate on caring for the person who shaped those very patterns.

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