My mom is aging and needs more help, but my sister lives closer and has been carrying most of the load, and now there's this unspoken resentment building where none of us — including mom — can talk directly about what's actually needed or what's fair.
More people experience this than they realize.
The practical demands of aging are revealing family dynamics that everyone feels but no one can name directly.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.