My mom is declining and my brother and I are supposed to be making decisions together but he lives across the country and visits twice a year while I'm here dealing with the daily reality. We both love her but we're operating from totally different information and it's creating this terrible tension where neither of us feels heard.
More people experience this than they realize.
Physical proximity to suffering creates different qualities of knowledge that can fracture even the most well-intentioned family bonds.
“Where Are You with Embodied learning and tacit knowledge?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.