My partner and I are both ADHD and we keep trying to create systems together - for our finances, our schedules, our household - but we'll hyperfocus on building the perfect system for three days and then neither of us can maintain it. We're exhausted from starting over and I think we're both secretly wondering if we're just incompatible in ways that matter.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two neurodivergent people are discovering that their individual coping strategies don't automatically translate into sustainable partnership rhythms.
“Where Are You with Neurodivergence — lived experience?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.