My partner and I are both in therapy working on our attachment stuff but we keep having the same fight about space and closeness — I'm trying to be less anxious and they're trying to be less avoidant but somehow we just end up acting out the exact patterns we're supposed to be healing.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people's healing journeys are colliding rather than supporting each other, creating the very dynamics they're individually trying to resolve.
“Where Are You with Parts work and Internal Family Systems?”
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