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Scenario

When couples struggle to maintain consistent boundaries with extended family

My partner and I are both trying to build better boundaries with our families but we keep undermining each other — I'll cave when they push back on something we agreed to hold firm on, or they'll get protective of me in ways that make things worse with my parents.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people attempting to grow often discover that individual healing work becomes exponentially more complex when it requires coordinated action and mutual trust.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Attachment in adult relationships?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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