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Scenario

When couples discover fundamental differences in their ethics around honesty

My partner and I discovered we have completely different approaches to lying - they think white lies to spare feelings are compassionate, I think any dishonesty corrodes trust - and it's coming up everywhere now, from how we talk to my mother about her cooking to whether we tell friends we're busy when we just want alone time.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are realizing their moral frameworks create daily friction in how they navigate truth-telling together.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Moral psychology — how we make ethical decisions?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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