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Scenario

When couples have different healing styles after betrayal

My partner and I have been trying to process a major betrayal in our relationship through therapy but we keep getting stuck in the same loop where I want to talk through every detail and they want to 'move forward' and neither of us is actually healing. We both want to repair this but our approaches feel completely incompatible.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people committed to repair are unknowingly sabotaging recovery through fundamentally mismatched processing needs.

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Patan
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Peri

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