Periagoge
Scenario

When family members grieve differently and can't connect

My teenage daughter and I are both grieving my mom's death but we're doing it completely differently — she's angry and acting out, I'm shutting down and working too much — and we keep missing each other when we actually need each other most.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Parallel suffering without shared language or rhythm often deepens isolation precisely when connection is most needed.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with African healing traditions for mental distress?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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