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Scenario

When parents learn CBT to help their teens but struggle with the boundaries

My teenage daughter and I are both learning CBT skills - she's working with a therapist for depression and I'm trying to support her by learning the techniques myself, but sometimes I think I'm becoming the thought police instead of her mom, challenging her cognitive distortions when she just wants to vent.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent's well-intentioned adoption of therapeutic tools is creating tension around when to be a therapist versus when to simply be present.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with CBT — principles and practice?”

Peri

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