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Scenario

When parent and teen perfectionism collide during high-stakes decisions

My teenage daughter and I are both perfectionists and we're supposed to be working together on her college applications but every conversation turns into both of us spiraling about not being good enough and I can't tell who's triggering whom anymore.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two perfectionists are discovering that their shared anxiety patterns create a feedback loop that makes collaborative decision-making nearly impossible.

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