Periagoge
Scenario

When parent and child share the same anxiety patterns

My teenage daughter and I are both perfectionists and we've created this dynamic where we're constantly performing for each other instead of actually connecting, and I can see her doing the same anxious achievement thing I do but I don't know how to break the cycle without seeming hypocritical.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are trapped in mirroring each other's protective strategies rather than offering genuine refuge from them.

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