My teenage daughter and I both struggle with perfectionism and it's creating this awful dynamic where we trigger each other's worst tendencies. She sees me being hard on myself and I see her doing the same thing and we both feel responsible for the other person's pain but don't know how to break the cycle.
More people experience this than they realize.
Inherited struggles create a mirror effect where each person's healing work becomes entangled with witnessing the other's pain.
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Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
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