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Scenario

When parent-child Socratic dialogue becomes subtle manipulation

My teenage daughter and I started doing Socratic dialogues about her college choices and life decisions, but I'm realizing that my questions aren't as neutral as I thought - I keep steering her toward conclusions I want her to reach. She's called me out on this and now we're both frustrated because the method feels manipulative even though we both believe in its value.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

The power dynamics inherent in the relationship are corrupting what should be open inquiry into disguised persuasion.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Socratic dialogue as method?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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