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When divorce changes your relationship with your child

My teenage daughter and I used to be really close but since her dad and I divorced last year she's become angry and distant with me specifically while still being affectionate with him. I know she's processing the divorce but it feels like she's punishing me and I don't know whether to give her space or try harder to connect.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Major family transitions can shift alliance patterns in ways that leave some relationships bearing disproportionate emotional weight.

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