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Scenario

How to model emotional regulation while still learning it yourself

My teenager and I are both learning to manage anger better, but I notice she mirrors my reactions even when I think I'm controlling myself well. I'm realizing she's picking up on subtle cues I don't even know I'm giving off, and I don't know how to model what I'm still figuring out myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

A parent struggles with the responsibility of teaching emotional skills they haven't mastered while their child unconsciously mimics their unresolved patterns.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Social learning theory?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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