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Scenario

When twin siblings struggle to develop separate identities in adulthood

My twin sister and I have always been incredibly close, but now that we're both in our thirties with our own families, I'm realizing I don't know how to have my own identity separate from her. Our spouses are getting frustrated with how enmeshed we are, but pulling apart feels like losing part of myself.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are facing the paradox that the closeness that sustained them may now be limiting their growth.

Your guide for this
Patan
Patan works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
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Worth thinking about

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Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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